About Lesley & Hwa
This is a blog/scrapbook of a year long adventure my daughter Hwa and I are taking by living in Hanoi Viet Nam for a year. I’m taking a sabbatical from work (thank you Martin) and Hwa will be starting second grade at the Hanoi International School. I am going to be volunteering at The Blue Dragon Foundation who work with Street and Trafficked children. I will be learning Vietnamese, and trying to learn how to meditate. As I have never been able to keep a diary this is my attempt to record our time away and include some cool pictures.
Hwa and I became a family on July 18th 2006 and I can without any hesitation say that she is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Hwa is from an area one hour north of Hanoi called Bac Ninh the orphanage she grew up in had seven other little girls of roughly the same age in and they all grew up together during the US/Vietnamese close down they are called The Bac Ninh Eight. We are lucky enough to know four of those other families and have a reunion every year in Florida, which also includes another fantastic family with a little girl called carrington who is a lot younger than the Bac Ninh Eight. Hwa was two months from turning four when she arrived in Brooklyn. Hwa will be seven in September 09 our birthdays are three days apart I will be so very much older.
Lesley x
The Work Biography
Lesley Bleakley is one of only a handful of female record company CEO’s in the US and since 1988 has been an integral part in the growth and fierce independence of The Beggars Group. Bleakley’s career at the label began in the UK when she was hired as an Office Junior. By 1995 she had relocated to the US as CEO of North American Operations. The label has greatly expanded since her move and now comprises some of the best and revered UK-based labels; 4AD, XL Recordings and Rough Trade as well as US indie stalwart Matador Records.
Since her move to the US, Lesley has been a tireless advocate for the concerns of the independent label, as well as women’s roles within the music industry. She has participated on many panels concerning both subjects and lectured all over the world. In the past three years Billboard magazine has featured her in a list of top twenty women in music, and she was the only one from an independent label. Along with Tom Silverman, Bleakley spearheaded the founding of A2IM.
Despite her obtained US citizenship, Bleakley continues to call M&M’s Smarties, insist that there is a “t” in “water” and “twenty”, and curtseys everytime she hears Queen on the radio.
May 2009

January 18, 2011 at 12:57 pm
Greetings from San Francisco
Hi Lesley, I was looking for your contact info to ask you some boring question and ran across your blog. I’m so happy for you! I’ve always admired you and now I admire you even more.
Take care and maybe we’ll talk in person again one day. I look forward to that time.
Take care,
Monte
January 27, 2011 at 11:01 am
wow how lovely to hear from you – hope you are doing well, let me know what you are up to. lesley x
January 14, 2011 at 8:59 am
I’m thinking about teaching English at Da Nang. I’m also thinking about doing taking the CELTA course at ILA and teaching there. I see that you are currently teaching there. Can you give me some insight on the environment there. Are you enjoying your experience at ILA?
I love reading your blog. I’ve been teaching in Japan for four years now, and thinknig about making the jump to learn about my own heritage and learn Vietnamese. Reading your blog is helping me get motivated to make the move, and it is giving me a lot to look forward to. Hope to see more of your progress in the future.
January 27, 2011 at 11:04 am
Hi
love love Da Nang, the city is small and chilled out just what I needed. The beaches are gorgeous and I love the people. Visitors think it is really boring but I think it is one of those places that you need to live in to appreciate. ILA is fine, I love the students they are great and the resource room and facilities we have are amazing, tons of reference books and support. If you want to contact the area manager his name is Nick Dall nicholas@ilavietnam.com – good luck and if you do make it here let me know lesleybleakley@gmail.com best lesley
December 18, 2010 at 11:03 am
Hi Lesley,
We miss you at PS 29 but your adventures in Vietnam sound fabulous!!! Love
Shelley (Evan and Lena’s mom)
January 10, 2011 at 11:10 am
lovely to hear from you, yes we love it here but miss our friends in New York. Happy New Year to you all x
November 27, 2010 at 4:42 am
Hi Lesley,
Its been ages since I had any contact with you. Last time I saw you was in Denmark, when you lived for a brief period in Copenhagen. Its very exiting to read your blog – never thought you would be that much into children – remember you werent impressed with Wendy (hope I got the name right) for wanting to raise a family, but again that was in the 1980′is …lol.
I’ve been living in Ireland for 7 years now – training and breeding greyhounds. I go to the occasional rock concert – last time was Depeche Mode in Dublin with my 13 year old daughter Caitlin.
I sincerely hope you will be able to increase your family with at least one more child.
Kind Regards,
Lotte X
October 19, 2010 at 10:56 pm
I am not sure how I ended up on your blog, I think I was trying to find some information on the orphanage in Bac Ninh…. My wifem my son and I brought my daughter home from the orphanage in April, 2009.. Apparently shortly before you travelled to VN.
I was wondering if you actually went back to the orphanage… I am trying to find out about one of the caregivers there… her name is “ZING” She was my daughter’s primary caregiver…
She and all the other caregivers seemed to be truly loving people…my daughter was definately well cared for while she was there.
Anyway, I was curious if you had any contacts there… I really just wanted to thank her…..
October 28, 2010 at 9:25 am
Hi
Me Dinh ( pronounced Zing) is the head caregiver at Bac Ninh and she was like Hwa’s first mum so we have had loads of contact with her. If you go nearer to the beginning of the blog July 09 you will see our first visit back to the orphanage and our first meeting with Me Dinh and our consequent travels with her and her family. The only way to contact her is through the orphanage. She loves getting updates, letters and photos. She is a wonderful woman and now like my mother in law… very bossy! Good luck and nice to hear from you. All the best lesley
September 12, 2010 at 2:53 am
Hi,
I fell in your blog through an expat web site.
I see that you both moved to Vietnam. I am from Canada, and I am looking to doing the same.
I am interested in moving to Saigon, and I want to teach English or find an English-speaking job.
I am really interested in knowing how you survived in terms of finding a job, language, etc.
I hope to hear from you soon
August 24, 2010 at 2:25 am
I stumbled onto your blog when I was searching “kids in Vietnam.” My husband was 10 when he family fled Saigon in 1975. I am American, and we have two young girls (almost 1 and almost 4). We have been discussing the idea of having my husband and our 2 girls live in VN for about 2 months every summer (I would stay in the US and work). I would love your advice/input about that idea. We have visited VN, but not since the girls were born.
June 23, 2010 at 1:45 am
Well done Lesley,
Good news for you to be able to spend another 2 years in the country, enjoy every minute as I guess it will fly by……
January 1, 2010 at 1:52 pm
Hi Lesley
Happy New Year
My friend Jenny Kane from NYC is a good friend of Sarah Apfel and she suggested I get a hold of you since I am in Hanoi. I am teaching a short course on video production here at the University of Hanoi- so would love to meet up for a cup of coffee if you have some time and hear more about what you are doing here and get an insiders scoop on Hanoi. My number is 0123 5457 420 and my email is maria@papertiger.org.
Best
Maria
October 28, 2009 at 12:21 am
Hello! Sorry for the delay in writing, we are now fully adjusted to our school year!! Everyone here says hello to Hwa, we miss her and are sending her lots of hugs.
October 14, 2009 at 5:34 pm
Hello, it really interesting, thanks
October 12, 2009 at 10:21 pm
Hey Lesley
Great to see how you and Hwa are doing and what a fantastic experience. Keep warm and see you when you get back xx
September 28, 2009 at 9:28 pm
Fascinating to read your blog! We adopted our daughter in Bac Ninh in June 2008 – she’s two this week and doing great. It was heartwarming to see the reception you got at the orphanage when you went back.
Pauline
September 5, 2009 at 8:05 pm
lesley, i do not have your email, but check out this newsletter. it’s on v-n adoption changes
http://www.adoptioninstitute.org.
July 30, 2009 at 7:42 pm
hey lesley, this is all so exciting, i’m so happy for both of you
you’re so brave and admirable, i wish we could talk soon, i’ll try to catch you on skype or please if you have a home number email it to me
hope to hear from you really soon, take good care and enjoy your adventures
xxemilie
July 30, 2009 at 6:02 am
Hi Lesley and Hwa
So delighted that you’re keeping a blog. I sent you a mail and got your out of office. Can’t wait to read the past posts and see what you’ve been up too. Give our love to all the little ones still in Bac Ninh when you see them.
Karen & Laoise
July 22, 2009 at 9:07 pm
Hi Leslie,
I’ve been following your journey ever since you posted your blog link on the message boards. Thanks so much for sharing with us! I’m really enjoying reading your daily posts. We would love to do what you’re doing one day in Vietnam, where my son was born, and Ethiopia, where my daughter was born.
Wishing you all the best!
July 23, 2009 at 8:22 am
Laura
thank you for reading, it has been strange doing a blog as I have never been much of a journal keeper, but I am really enjoying doing this it is a bit like therapy for me. I’ve always wanted to go to Ethiopia too so if you make it out there please make sure you keep a blog so I can read it. If you make it out to Vietnam in the next year get in touch.
All my best Lesley
July 4, 2009 at 7:21 am
yo lesley
well i’m trying for the upteenth time to get an email back from you…not sure what i did wrong….but now you’ll be meditating and chilling out and maybe not thinking about selling records…you could re-open the lines of communication…you miserable old boot?!
very interested in what you’re doing cos i remember you coming back from your hols in Vietnam and being enthralled by the place. since then i’ve been to Ho Chi Minh and Hue…also loved it.
but anyway, it would be great to hear from you.
xnick
ps. i’m now a journalist and do some work at of all places Horse & Hound! unbelievable, eh?
July 4, 2009 at 10:28 am
Hello.
I had no idea that you were trying to get in touch with me I am not avoiding you – we can be facebook friends
lesley x
June 27, 2009 at 12:03 pm
HI Lesley ans Hwa
WE adopted our daughter Maeve from VN in 2007. We look forward to following your journey. We loved Hanoi too. Best Wishes for a wonderful year!!!! (((hugs)))
June 26, 2009 at 11:27 pm
in Hebrew “cole ha cavod” meaning all the respect. That was a powerful video and now I see where my 2 yr old son may have ended up. He’s with me here in Brooklyn and he is without a doubt the best thing that ever happened to me. I’m saving coins to take him to Vietnam when he’s older (I should have enough for the airfare by then and I put into his mind that we are longing to return) I’ll be following your couragous journey.
June 26, 2009 at 6:29 pm
Wow! I have a 2 year old Vietnamese daughter. We live in Colorado. We’ll love following your progress. I understand the allure and even the need for adventure as well as the trepidation that comes along on the ride. Good for you for making this all happen! You’re an inspiration to me, and maybe we’ll even follow in your footsteps a few years down the road.